Quoting Poster, “In the “Chasidishe” world (where u have minimal dating), girls do not read non jewish books, have access to a TV, go to movies or read the NY Times. So while they are exposed to outside influences to an extent, their exposure is to a much a lesser degree, therefore there is a slimmer chance of getting “burnt”.”
I think you are totally missing my point! We have to stop saying my way is better than yours and start giving young people the tools they need for a successful relationship. Even if there is less outside influences and slimmer chances of getting burnt, as you say, they are still there! Their mere presense is something that every circle of Judiasm must address.