gavra, I’m not sure whether you are correct or incorrect regarding the reasons you attribute to Chasidish marriages (actually you are at least partially incorrect as Chasidishe couples do have expectations from their spouses, and they do NOT think abuse is the norm; aside from it being rare, I think its clear you don’t have much first hand experiance with Chasidishe marriages and what makes them tick), but I do know that the reasons they think “everything is good” is NOT for the reasons you attribute but rather because by and large everything generally IS good. Yes, they have simpler expectations, but that is a GOOD thing.
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