I know…I was just harnessing the implication of what you weren’t saying for kicks. 🙂
But I don’t agree with what you are really saying either. I don’t think “maturity” is this absolute state that you magically enter when you hit some arbitrary age. Also, you seem to imply that a “happy marriage” is contingent entirely on the choice of partner, and not at all on personal maturity, which I think is absolutely ludicrous.