This is a sticky wicket, as they say. You can always say you are making just a very small religious ceremony with family. But the truth is you don’t have to invite anyone from the office (maybe the boss), especially if they are all non-Jews you can bring in a nice buffet for breakfast when you return to work, add in some fancy cakes or desserts, for the office to share and they will probably be happy not to have to shell out for a big wedding present. It will be fine, IMO, as long as no one is singled out.
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