‘In most of these cases there would likely be a problem with or without the internet.
Again, you made that up. You don’t see the problems (you’re not a rov or marriage counselor), so you’re projecting your wishful thinking on the facts.’
zahavasdad did not make this up i have worked with many otd kids and adults and i can tell you that the biggest problems have been the educational system, the parents, and some times immaturity on the part of the kids. the internet is a very small factor. you in fact are the one who has been projecting his wishful thinking as you keep on “wishing” for the internet to be the problem when it is not. i am sure that if u volunteered your time to work with such people you would drastically change your opinion on the subject. it is a good thing the rabbonim by and large have not taken your tact in dealing with this crisis.