ZD,
You don’t need unfiltered internet, you just need settings in your filter which work for you, not the default settings.
I don’t think any of the rabbonim involved object to using internet for parnassah; your opposition is based on a misunderstanding.
As for false chumros and halachos posted on the internet, that’s just another argument for avoiding the unnecessary parts of the web.
Speak to a competent, reliable posek, and follow his direction (his psak will undoubtedly be based on the facts as you present them, not as some anonymous CR poster presents them) and never mind the misinformation.
It sounds like you have presented the shaila, and if so you have no reason to be defensive about how you make your living (or as R’ Gifter used to say, how you “take a living)”.