Thank you both Middle and Mike
However my solution will fall on deaf ears and we will perpetuate the same cycle of hopelessness for 70% of the ladies out there.
The fact that you guys agree with me is proof enough that the rest of the readers on this board will ignore/ridicule it.
And to the girls in parasha who are falling victim to the extortion or being ignored in favor of girls that will net them financial gain..there are guys out there for you! You might just need to be a little bit proactive or step outside your comfort zone!