Interjection, I should have clarified my question, even though I thought it obvious due to the subject nature of this thread.
Please define “good boy” and “good girls” as it relates to shidduchim and then explain why it is harder to qualify as good as it relates to shidduchim for a boy, then for a girl.
Before I comment on what you wrote, I want to be sure your answer remains the same in light of this info.
As a general comment, I think you are overstating the yetzer hara faced by “boys” and understating the yetzer hara faced by girls. You replied to someone “you will never understand what boys face” yet you presume to understand what girls face and how simple it is for them to overcome. I think that is rather presumptous, but can’t disagree with how you feel, if that is how you feel.