Say to the Bereaved “Baruch Dayan Emes”
Two minor nitpicks:
1. The proper phrase, I believe, is “Baruch Dayan HaEmes” (with the definite article).
2. This phrase, which is recited upon hearing bad news, is not meant to comfort the bereaved. It’s meant to express your belief that God is fair and true. “HaMakom…” or even “I’m so sorry…” would probably be more appropriate.
The Wolf