Reply To: Chemistry Is Important

Sam2 – Good tzushtell (again). For those who do not know what he is referring to, Rashi says that the words ????? ??????? in the sheva brachos refer to the groom and the bride “because they are friends who love each other.” It’s 8a by the way.

DaasYochid – The bottom line of the article seems to imply that feelings are not relevant in a shidduch. I quote:

Even if the author did not mean what he is implying, the fact of the matter is that when people read this they get that impression. That gives me enough of a reason to respond the way I did.

OneOfMany – I couldn’t have said it better.