Purple – Sorry, don’t take it personally, but it’s true. Your stated reasons were all self-centred, hence your reasons selfish. I was not calling you a selfish person, simply saying that you had failed to take anyone but yourself into account. If people can’t point out when others are behaving in a manner that could be improved for fear of not ‘validating their feelings’ or some such then nobody would ever grow. I hate to burst your normally carefree bubble but you are approaching this issue with superficial and, I hate to say it again, slightly selfish motives. I was merely trying to point that out so that you could re-evaluate your approach and see that maybe you have no need to get so desperate. Your sister’s marriage is not about you having a good time at a wedding and you need to appreciate that. Please accept this in the spirit in which it was intended.
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