What about the clueless shadchan who just met you 5 minutes ago and is convinced that they know the “perfect” girl for you? I had way too many of those. It never ceases to annoy me. Do you really think you know someone from seeing them for 5 minutes?!
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Guys, you would be amazed what random peole can reveal to me during a simple shoe fitting. I assure that if a shadchan would work in my shop she would know what every bochur and girl wants after less than five minutes. I’ve heard similar sentiments from hairdressers… etc..
Remember good shadchaniyot normally are good judges of character, know a lot of background information about families, shuls, etc.., and yes, many can help you after just a few minutes.