mommamia22 -“Men who withhold money to get what they want.”
This I can see as a grounds for divorce, but I still think that therapy should be tried first.
“Men who work for years on end in dead end jobs that don’t bring home sufficient income to cover basic needs despite the wife working also. Men who independently choose to stay in their beloved carreer because they’re convinced that despite a decade or more of struggle and tears that their next dollar is just around the corner.”
Now this is not so clear cut. Is the man refusing to accept a better job? Perhaps he feels if he quits this one to look for another, he won’t find another one at all. And to look for another job while doing this one might be too difficult for him. This has to be judged up, each case individualy, by Marital Therapists. For any woman to declare, off the bat, without the therapist’s approval, that she has to divorce him, is both foolish and immature!