I didn’t push for a second date because it would be kinda awkward to go on a date knowing the person never wanted to be there in the first place
When I first came to the yeshiva, there was an alter bochur who never came to shachris, and also once a similar thing happened to him while dating. So he did push for the second date, and then took her on a 3 hr walk in high heels and never bought her a drink, and then dropped her off a block from her house because it was “too hard to go around the block”, and then told the shadchan he didn’t want to go out again because she is ugly and why did he even set her up with him to begin with.