i was serious! but i said two things.
1) i assumed you were asking someone in their right mind
2) the truth is, and don’t deny it, that you don’t display or expose people’s chesronos who are dating. if you do, there will always be a resounding NO. did i say something false?
syag: “hence the real source of the shidduch crisis. ” huh??
zahavadad: that’s unfair to push people to marry someone with a medical issue! would you push your child into such a marriage because of “the Shidduch crisis”??! I wouldn’t!
having said that, such information SHOULD DEFINITELY BE REVEALED BEFORE A MARRIAGE PROPOSAL i.e. after several dates, where one should take time to weigh the situation: their maalos vs the depression.