Dolphina – “And just so it’s clear, not one of the people posting here keep all the mitzvot.” That is negative judgment at its finest. Unlike much of the (admittedly often wrong) judgment of ACTIONS one may see here, you are judging PEOPLE. The Torah perspective on people is al tadin es chaveircha ad shetagia limkomo and havei dan es kol adam lekaf z’chus (don’t judge another til you walk in their shoes/ judge people favorably).
Actions are either right or wrong and the Torah requires that we know which are which (ubacharta bachaim – you must choose life).
P.S. As to the matter of clearly settled jewish law that the privileges and responsibilities of being jewish are only passed on through the mother, is that misogyny too?