Halevi – there are more ?????? for this concept of a husband and wife having a connection after death. The ?? ?????? ? says that ??? ?? ???? ????, and ??”? explains ??? ????? ??????, that dead people cannot divorce. One can see that the problem isn’t that the marriage is terminated and there is nothing left to be ????; rather the problem is that a dead person cannot be ????.
(Although one can push away the ???? and say that ??”? holds that ?????? works with ????? ??, and even if the man is dead the ???? may be able to divorce {like we see if the man goes crazy the ????can divorce} — and therefore ??”? says ??? ???? ?????? and the divorce cannot take place; ???? ???? by ?????. [But ??”? in ??????? ?? ? is ???? that there is no such thing as ????? ?? and all ?????? works with ???? ??????].)