PBA: If you’re in the regular world, abortions are normal, whether you agree with it or not.
It seems like what you’re talking about is more being out of a Jewish environment than being in an anti-Jewish brainwashing environment. To anyone else, abortion is normal. They’re not trying to convince you of everything because they think that you agree already.
Is that what you’re saying?
The alternative would just be to shut ourselves in our whole lives. Many do, but those decide to go to college/grad school therefore probably know what to expect.