Sam2: “Pashtus is that Lo Silbash has nothing to do with Arayos.”
That tells me you have no fundamental understanding of halacha. I am sure you have the potential to be a talmid chacham, but for now I do not want to get into long debaates with you again. Your above statement just confirmed you have a long way to go before you are ready to start having these debates.
And who gets to determine what constitutes “wanting to be like a man”
I don’t know, that’s my point, it has nothing to do with lo tilbash.