Juboy613: “I know its wrong but nobody ever really ever gives me a good reason to stop”
You just answered your own question by saying “I know its wrong”.
Gotcha answer right there. The reason to stop is because its wrong. According to who? to Hashem. (its like saying I know eating treiffe is wrong but no one ever gave me a reason to stop) ??!!?
If that fact that Hashem said its wrong is not enough for you, then Hashem should help you.
Is it hard? Of course its hard. I went through the same struggle. Of course jewish music is not as exciting as non jewish music. Otherwhise there would be no yetzer hara. But many things Hashem asks of us is difficult, yet they are ALL possible.