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Well it makes sense that in a mixed environment you would get male attention for dressing a certain way so its hard to dress differently and risk losing that. Clearly a self esteem issue. Ill leave it to the girls to help you with the self esteem. However I am never surprised when I hear that people in coed colleges run into problems. In fact even in non coed college there are bad influences so it goes without saying that in such an environment your Yiddishkiet will be under attack. I would tell you that you should find a mentor like a teacher/Rebbitzen someone who you can be in touch with on a regular basis. I would also say that if you don’t regularly read some kind of Torah content (at least once a week when your mind is clear read a sefer in Hebrew or English for a significant amount of time and make an effort to inculcate it in your life) you will find yourself slipping in other areas as well very soon.