I agree that a person can have multiple “bashert”s. In fact, I dated other men who probably would have been right for me had we each been in a different stage of life. It just didn’t work out at that point in time. B”h I am very happy with how things turned out 🙂
I am not saying that there is only one “right” person. However, before you call someone picky for waiting around, remember that there are many, many “wrong”s.