Reply To: Do boys really have the upper hand in shidduchim?

Everything about appearances has to work for that particular couple. If there is a boy who wouldn’t be able to think a brunets is beautiful then do all brunets a favor and don’t marry one. Also a boy has to see the girl before he marries her because a boy is very rarely able to look past appearances whereas girls are that actually gives girls the upper hand because it gives you more options. the other thing that evens the score is that each boy must marry a girl (l’halacha) so in order for a boy to get married a girl also has to.