I’m asking you to acknowledge and understand that the girls in my community would be much more embarrassed by the added attention of the boys coming over to help, “
I concede that perhaps that is so in your community. It saddens me, however, to think that ANYone out of a possible misinterpretation of “negiyah” would hesitate to ask for help or to offer it to someone who has fallen and is possibly injured and DEFINITELY embarrassed. But again, I understand your point completely.