ultimateskier-do you know girls who talk to waterbury guys?
and do you keep up with them and see how they develope when they leave the yeshiva and stop talking to girls? The yeshiva allows them the freedom and allows them to develope on their own and mature on their own and make their own decisions. If you want your nephew to be happy send him to the happiest yeshiva in the world-waterbury. one of my good friends son went to waterbury and i cant begin to tell you how pleased he was. and its a long term yeshiva, the guys do just as well bein hazmanim as during the zman. its real growth and development.