Two years ago,on Rosh Hashana/Yom Kippur, I asked Hashem earnestly to help me forgive relatives who hurt me….Hashem heard my tefilos and over the course of the year,many connections were THUS renewed.
Then guess what?
My oldest son became a chosson, and I NOW HAD A WHOLE FAMILY TO CELEBRATE WITH!(The Chasuna was beautiful,b”h)
A Word of Caution: You cannot tell someone ELSE when or whom to forgive!!! It needs to come from one’s heart — when the person himself/herself feels READY to undertake it.