In addition some OTD teens have led a pretty okay life. Of course, nobody has every single wish they want in life, but it was average. Then they go nitpicking on every little detail that wasn’t too their liking.
You call it details, they call it searching for truth. A friend of mine went OTD. She looked to find truth in Torah Judaism and didn’t. She disagreed with the proofs. Can you imagine keeping the details of things like borer if you don’t believe?
There is a whole group out there that call themselves “orthoprax” – they are generally married with kids and stuck. They love their spouses, families etc but they don’t believe. It makes a very resentful situtation.
You say nitpicking details, they call it the essence of truth.