Reply To: Getting the other to say no

WIY, thanks for your post. I will be firm when/if the issue comes up.

Unrelated rant: This is what’s annoying with shidduch dating. Everything I say has to go through me/my mother the shadchan the boy/mother. And it has to make sense to all parties. Sometimes I wish I could just tell the boy what I think directly.

DY – thanks for not calling me a number. There are lots of 613’s here. I forgot to respond to that before.