GAW, we don’t disagree at all. I just believe that there are girls who view their style of dress as totally appropriate, no matter what others think, and they are not struggling within themselves to be more tzniusdig in that respect. The only ones who are truly struggling are girls who RECOGNIZE that their is a problem with what they are wearing, but will continue to do so anyway and feel guilty about it. Would you agree that there are people who feel NO guilt at all about various things that they do, like eating tarfus, not keeping Shabbos, not going to the mikveh, etc? Those are people who are not conflicted, and there are girls who are Shomros Shabbos who likewise are NOT conflicted when they wear short sleeves, pants, short skirts, etc. If and when they go to Seminary in E”Y, many DO come back, no longer comfortable with what they used to do.
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