I understand the feeling that you don’t want to deceive your family, but ever hear of the concept of TMI – too much information? Yes, be truthful, but consider that your parents may not want to hear you spell out exactly how you are rejecting their values. Drops some hints, make a few comments about your plans and activities and wait to see if they are asking questions. No need to rub their face in your reality. Remember – “I appreciate what I’ve learned from you, but religion is not a central part of my life right now.” Leave the door open. Two years out of high school?! Think how much you and your perspective have changed in the last few years, what makes you think that there is nothing left to change?
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