The Gemara in Bava Kama on 38a-38b shows that R’ Shmuel Bar Yehudah was quite sad when his daughter died.
On the other hand, the way Ulah comforted him was by saying “?? ???? ??? ?????? ??? ???? ???? ??? ??? ?? ??? ??? ???? ???? ???” and Rashi says ??? ?? ??? ?? ?????. ???? ??? ?? ??? ??? ???? ?????