Do your definitions of a clean home differ? Are your expectations of cleanliness such that you expect to be able to lick the floors, while she is happy that there are no visible crumbs? If your standards are different and she says get a cleaning lady to meet your standards, then she is right, hire a cleaning lady. she is your wife, not your cleaning lady. I also agree that since she is pregnant, you agree to hire one until 68 weeks after the baby is born b’ezras hashem to give her time to get back on her feet.
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