MDD: The Rashi there (70b, you could have been nice and given me the Maree Makom) literally has no Shaichus whatsoever to our discussion. There is no personal connection (as there is there), and that is the only Halachic concern (that she may reach out to him because of that personal connection).
Show me where it says it in Shulchan Aruch and I’ll agree to you.