oomis, please understand the perspective of your single friend. She wants her friends back and at the same time does not want to be a “nebech case” that everyone should invite over. she probably does not want to come for shabbos as that will emphasize her single-ness. she might want to do the type of things that you two did together before you were married as that, to her, shows the friendship of old. She might think, however wrongly, that your desire to be with her is to have a “chessed case”. you said that you tried calling and making plans ect and she didnt respond. maybe she just was too hurt by all the other former friends.
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