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For anyone out there wondering, I have an unbelievably great Yichus not just from before the war but even after the war & from both sides of my family, but by me it’s never ever brought up for a few reasons 1)It is Gaavah. 2)It is not my doing, Al Korchuch Ato Noilad. 3)Yichus Atzmi is what counts to Hashem. 4)If someone has big Yichus and flaunts it, he loses out either way in Oilom Ho’elyoin, if he does what Hashem wants whilst he is down here in the Oilom Hasheker, he only gets rewarded a little up there, since it’s expected of him to act according to his Yichus, and if he doesn’t act appropriatly down here in the Oilom Hasheker, he gets twice the punishment in the Oilom Ho’emes, once for the way he acted & second for ambarrasing his yichus. Remember the Posuk, V’shoveho Bitzdokoh, we will be redeamed by doing what is right