Do you know the difference between Yiddish clothing and Goyish clothing? It has nothing to do with who made, it has to do with who wears it.
Goyish music is a physical fact. Watch someone listen to it for a few minutes and see the inspired behavior. It is physical. The difference can be measured. And if you hold yourself back from acting out the instinct it instills it is still there.
Like wine, music can be Mesameach in a holy way. And like wine, take it with without Cheshbon and there is nothing further from holy.