@live right – Yes. And the bashing goes both ways. People feel they need to bash those who do not *seem* as “frum” as they *seem.* Don’t they get it? Not everyone is capable of the things you are, and some people are even more capable. Don’t begrudge them that. I bet they are genuinely trying as hard as they can to (excuse the pun) live right. 🙂
@streekgeek, regarding F.R.U.M. – So true, unfortunately.
@Sanity – Yes! I’m proud to be Jewish, and I don’t like trying to blend into a crowd unless I’m being followed by someone.