Those are unfortunately are a very small minority. I have seen plenty of cases where the rebbeim/menahalim held grudges years later and refused to go over to those bochurim by simchas even to see how they were doing. I guess it is tough for the rabbonim/manhegai hador to speak about it without stepping on peoples (and yeshivas) toes but in my humble opinion it is an issue which needs to be addressed.
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