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    Should they have dorm counselors who can be not much older then them, and sometimes VERY immature and baybyish.

    #1696175
    Takes2-2tango
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    In essence s dorm counselor is a mashgiach.
    If a bachur needs a mashgiach in the bais medrash,(which they do), he surly needs one in the dorm.

    #1696183
    funnybone
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    They should have someone who answers to the rosh yeshiva. Bochurim shouldnt snitch on one another. Dorm counselor should.

    #1696327
    Captain™
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    Dorm counselors are always buzzkills.

    CaptainBump™

    #1696461
    Habochur
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    No they definitely should not have dorm counselors When a Bochur is in beis medresh he’s old enough to make the right decisions. And the ones that don’t r the miyut and they shouldn’t ruin it for everyone else

    #1696460
    Heargod
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    Mr alphabet, ur screen name a-z said that u need a dorm counsler even if others dont

    #1696528
    LOTR92
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    Gandy…….Indian?
    I don’t know about him, but I like my food.

    #1696645
    LerntminTayrah
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    Today, with the easy availability of shmutz, dorm counselors are a must.

    #1696691
    themasmidofbrisk
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    @lerntminTayrah what do u mean ?

    #1696850
    Curiosity
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    “should they have dorm counselors who can be not much older then them, and sometimes VERY immature and baybyish.”

    No. They should have mature, responsible, dorm counselors instead.

    #1697118
    LOTR92
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    “Today, with the easy availability of shmutz, dorm counselors are a must.”
    Not true. A bochur can get all that “shmutz” whether there is a dorm counselor or not. Sometimes a dorm counselor is a responsible person that does a good job, but more often than not the dorm counselor is immature and babyish, looking for kicks by thinking they can ‘control’ the younger guys. They are worthless in that regard. When I was in mesivta all the dorm counselor did was soak people that were wearing shorts in the hallway. He did nothing to stop bochrim from getting ‘shmutz’.

    #1697705
    lakewhut
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    Nowadays, it is needed for bochurim aged 19-20. A few bad apples can turn a yeshiva into a drug rehab.

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