Girl Asking Guy to Marry Her

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    Joseph
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    Guys, how would you feel if a girl asked you to marry her?

    Girls, how would you feel asking a guy to marry you?

    Everyone, how would you feel if you heard this happened by someone close to you?

    #1358673

    My first reaction would be freak…. so weird looks desperate

    #1358683

    If I was the guy and a girl proposed to me I’d say NOOOOO!!!! And run for my life

    #1358698
    chabadgal
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    That would just be weird

    #1358727
    👑RebYidd23
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    Neither should ask. If they are frum, once they have decided that they want to get married, there is no toeles for them to talk to each other until after the wedding. They should from then go through the shadchan.

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    Shopping613 🌠
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    I beleve Tzipi Canton proposed to her husband,
    It wouldn’t be weird at all. I know plenty of girls who have done it. Indeceisive guy they really liked and hey just said “Hey, I really like you…can we get married?” and the guy said yes and then they went ring shopping lol.

    #1358838
    Joseph
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    Shopping, would you possibly do it?

    #1358859
    adocs
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    Rebyidd,

    Sounds like you’re channeling Joseph.

    #1358860
    Shopping613 🌠
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    Sure, why not? I’d prefer that he propose, but I would totally do it.

    #1358874
    jdb
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    I know if situations where the girl brought it up before the guy. Shouldn’t be a big deal. That’s why you are dating.

    #1359050
    👑RebYidd23
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    Why thank you, adocs.

    #1359099
    sifsei chachamim
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    @shopping
    If they went engagement ring shopping I’m guessing they are not so chareidi, hence…

    #1359101
    Meno
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    hence?

    #1359104
    Yechi Hamelech
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    Iv’e seen lots of strange topics posted on this forum before…….
    BUT THIS ONE IS BY FAR THE STRANGEST

    #1359111
    Meno
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    The strangest? By far?

    #1359115
    zaltzvasser
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    Two of my friend’s sisters did it. But at least one of them had him propose to her after. Personally, I think there’s nothing wrong with it. If two people are ready to get married, who cares who makes it official?

    #1359601

    Socially off… 🙄

    #1359653
    WolfishMusings
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    The only reason Eeees and I are a couple is because she recognized me from a previous meeting and came over and said “hello.”

    Not quite the same as her proposing, but the relationship did start because of her action, not mine.

    The Wolf

    (and, FTR, while I did formally propose, we both knew within about three weeks that it wasn’t a matter of “if” we were going to get married, but “when.” The proposal was really just a formality at that point.

    #1359656
    Joseph
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    Wolf: What flavor was the candy engagement ring, that you shared with her?

    #1359852
    WolfishMusings
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    Wolf: What flavor was the candy engagement ring, that you shared with her?

    I don’t remember, largely because I didn’t share it with her. I gave it to her. She ate it.

    The Wolf

    #1359859
    🍫Syag Lchochma
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    my dad gave my mom a band with 🥕🥕🥕

    (think about it)

    #1359867
    Chaver
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    Didn’t Rus ask Boaz to marry her?

    #1359999
    TheGoq
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    She uncovered his feet so he probably thought I should not have cold feet i might as well go ahead and get married.

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