Your husband will want to be your husband, not your mentor.
Your mother doesnt want you to have a mentor? Shed rather instead you turn to anonymous internet strangers? Does she wish to be your mentor?
apushatayid – you can talk to your husband about everything and anything so that is like a mentor.
A person is limited ..each person in different areas.you’re husband cant be ur mentor and husband ..that’s not his role in life.he himself will have a mentor probably a rav.and what if u have a question about your husband that u can’t discuss with him obviously…it’s always best to have a third party.
Happygirlygirl – i have a family of my own b’h. so ill discuss that with them h’h.
Of all the things you have raised online, have you discussed a single one with your family? What have they advised?
It seems you already have your whole support system worked out. Why are you asking advice from people on the internet?