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I need to make someone dislike me. I don’t know how. Anyone have any subtle yet effective ideas to end a friendship?
Either lend or borrow money.
how about just be honest with this person instead of hurting lots of feelings and making big messes. ive been in this situation so many times I cant count. its hard, but you have to take that step and speak your mind.
you haven’t been so explicit about why you wish to end this relationship, so here I am assuming you are having a similar experience to what ive been through. feel free to correct me.
Why? Is it too emotionally or physically draining? Cuz the girl is just plain annoying? Or cuz she’s sinking and youre trying not to with her…..?
Maybe she needs you and you shouldnt end it in the 1st place…….
Eat garlic?
Troll?
PLEASE be honest. However hard it is you will be happier in the end.
Well Cindrella if you go bye carriage to the ball and leave as the servant it could help?
Smell. Who can stand that?
And general rule: Never flirt or “play” with the vulnerable. Then you won’t have to make yourself unlikeable post-facto.
The goq
Lend them money you won’t ever see them again 🙂
The goq
Lend them money you won’t ever see them again 🙂
i can improve on that:
keep your finger shoved up your nose. and dont shower. i wouldnt like you at all.
Kill them
I’ll solve your problem. I dislike you. Oh! you mean someone in particular.
Start backing off. Be friendly but dont share information with them. Depending on how close you were with them, they should get the hint.
I do that with nosy neighbors. Cool friendship I call it.
Popa- She wanted something subtle. . .
You shouldn’t. If you want someone to be less involved in your life, then just don’t be available. But don’t be obnoxious about it, either. You should never burn a bridge behind you. This person’s child could be redt to your own, someday.
Cinderella
I should mention don’t do any aveiros in the process. Ie don’t spread rumors about her behind her back or embarrass her in public…
Btw I was thinking a good idea would be to get into arguments with her. Like if you know she has certain opinions take the opposite side and argue strongly for that side always and say stuff like “it’s stupid irrational and immature to think otherwise” and similar things. Eventually she will get fed up with you. She may even start to really dislike you.
cinderella- sounds like what ur doing is the best way for this particular situation then. When u do take her calls, dont gush about having not spoken to her in so long, and dont do so long or in depth convos?
On the other hand, i dont know why you are trying to cut her off, but make sure its a valid neccesary reason? Esp right after yom kippur. Try to view things from her shoes if its of that sort.
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