Looking people up and down is rude?

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  • May 13, 2012 1:28 pm at 1:28 pm #603388
    more_2
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    Every day I walk past this guy. I have no idea who he is. All I know is that he drinks a cup of coffee at eight o clock every day… And that’s about it… Today his hair was slightly frizzled, so I guess I took a double glance cause he said hey you sir what’s that sympathetic look for? Everyday you look me up and down as if I’ve got some sorta prolem… What is it? Could ya please let me know? I was horrified. I didn’t think I looked him up and down everyday.. Just today I did. I think people naturally show it in thier appearances when tgey feel sorry for someone.. It’s naturally there… Like going red out of embarrassment.. How can you help such a thing? I just automatically put my teeth over my lips I can’t help it!! Pointers please???thanks!!

    May 13, 2012 2:16 pm at 2:16 pm #876723
    Naysberg
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    Go give him a big Shalom Aleichem and ask about his family and hobbies.

    May 13, 2012 2:22 pm at 2:22 pm #876724
    squeak
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    You wish, Jaysberg

    May 13, 2012 2:59 pm at 2:59 pm #876725
    wanderingchana
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    Or, if he’s not a Yid, just wish him Good Morning and smile when you walk past him.

    May 14, 2012 7:02 pm at 7:02 pm #876726
    HaLeiVi
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    Sounds like he actually wanted to start a conversation. But yes, looking someone up and down is rude. Always pay attention to what the other person thinks you are thinking.

    (ZeesKite, no need to continue the loop.)

    May 14, 2012 11:37 pm at 11:37 pm #876727
    ZeesKite
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    I stopped looping. Just kidding. Just kidding. Just kidding. Just ..

    May 15, 2012 2:23 am at 2:23 am #876728
    HaLeiVi
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    That last one was Mit An Emess.

    May 15, 2012 5:03 am at 5:03 am #876729
    yitayningwut
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    I’m confused. Here you say you are a sir, yet elsewhere it was implied that you are a woman. See here:http://www.theyeshivaworld.com/coffeeroom/topic/idaven

    May 28, 2012 3:13 pm at 3:13 pm #876730
    more_2
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    My wife and I both post using similar screen names alot of the time using each others.

    May 29, 2012 1:55 pm at 1:55 pm #876731
    TheGoq
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    I can relate to the one being stared i too suffer from Ophthalmophobia.

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