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    pixelate
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    So, my son is 16 years old already, and i was hoping he would stop misbehaving so i don’t have to give him petch. He complains that his friends’ fathers never give their children petch, but i know it’s because they’re the new ‘modern’ type who don’t listen to the gedoilim anyways. My son doesn’t listen to me on purpose, and he knows we only wear double breasted suits, but he doesn’t care. There’s a fine niche in yiddishkeit that is missing in this new generation. Also, these new belts they make are so stiff, they don’t whip so well.

    #1014865
    ben_David
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    Sniff Sniff…I smell MO…sniff sniff…I also smell a failed attempt at trolling…

    #1014866
    sm29
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    Teens usually act out because they want to be independent and be their own person. they need both space and boundaries. It’s hard to find a balance, but we should keep trying. Some advice i read somewhere was talk to them about things, listen to them, and pick what to be strict about, for ex. drinking, etc. and what to let go, for ex. a small thing that’s irritating but Not important.

    For parents in general, Project Yes has some good parenting resources B’H

    #1014867
    yocbm
    Member

    whre do u live so i can call the cops? If u want ur son to listen show some love and maybe even talk to him vehigadata lebincha. The way u are heading i give son another year or two at most till he completely hates u and judaism. The choice is urs hope u make the right move

    #1014868
    HaLeiVi
    Participant

    Use your wife’s belt.

    #1014869
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
    Participant

    Use the Jackie Robinson rather than the belt. Much faster, and a better hitter.

    #1014870
    SaysMe
    Member

    a failed attempt at humor too. This isn’t funny, esp if ppl are taking it seriously.

    Imo, should be closed

    #1014871
    the plumber
    Member

    Let the guy hav his fun. If you don’t like his humor, no one asked you to post.

    #1014872
    Epis
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    pixelate, I volenteer by a place which deals with kids from chasidesh/ Haimesh homes who are at risk. I don’t know if you are serious or not, but you should know two things:

    1. You want to prove to him that you love him unconditionally (this does not happen by hitting it actually turns him off).

    2. That when it comes to hitting your son who is a teenager, he will do just the oposite of what you want. Having a heart to heart conversation (with the parents not on their devices) with him may bring out a better results.

    #1014873
    pixelate
    Member

    Ok, @sm29, @Epis, @yocbm this was a bad idea I’m just trolling, & i feel bad you took time to answer honestly so i’m coming out

    #1014874
    gefen
    Participant

    SaysMe +100000000

    #1014875
    sm29
    Participant

    I had a feeling but i wrote something just in case

    #1014876
    the plumber
    Member

    Good. You guys really caught him red handed this time. Now pixelate, I’m gonna give ua petch on the wrist and don’t do it again.

    #1014877
    HaLeiVi
    Participant

    Maybe they were trolling and making you feel bad for no reason.

    #1014878
    👑RebYidd23
    Participant

    They may have been trolling.

    #1014880
    funnybone
    Participant

    Maybe your son is misbehaving because his father is a troll? Research has shown that 80% of troll children act out their troll impulses by misbehaving instead of trolling. This research was done by Freud himself!

    #1014881
    ymbyi
    Member

    Why are almost all my posts regardless of content erased???

    I posted something very nice here and you removed it.

    please read the rules

    #1014882
    ymbyi
    Member

    To the Mod. I think you are making the rules up as you go along. I have seen people post terrible things on this board and you allow it through.

    Let face the truth. You just do not like what I have to say and worse you know that it is true.

    We approve plenty of posts which we do not agree with. If you cannot read and follow the rules, maybe the CR is not for you.

    #1014883
    ymbyi
    Member

    So tell me Mod: Was did you shut down my newest post about Keeping kids on the Derech, I read through your offical rules and I did not violate a single one them.

    If you can tell me, which rule I violated in this post I would be happy so that I can learn for next time.

    Nothing was deleted. I don’t know what you are referring to.

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