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  • #1184697
    voos epes
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    That’s odd but no we can it’s not really an issue (I do)

    #1184698
    👑RebYidd23
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    Some “satmars” use the Internet.

    #1184699
    voos epes
    Member

    It’s Satmarers not satmars

    #1184700
    Letakein Girl
    Participant

    VE,

    Do you at least have a filter?

    #1184701
    voos epes
    Member

    Yep

    #1184702
    Randomex
    Member

    No offense intended, but often a mentor/teacher/rebbe can tell us whether we’re actually doing the right thing(s) or just feel like we are. They can also advise us on what’s best for us in our particular situation, which may not be a question of right or wrong.

    #1184703
    hindy caplan
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    i agree with randomex usually mentors can help guide the girls through the process of applying to seminary.

    #1184705
    Sparkly
    Member

    someone else started this thread about a year ago. but i can add to it. where would you recommend i go to seminary?

    #1184706
    Meno
    Participant

    “someone else started this thread about a year ago”

    Right. Sure. Yep. Mhm

    #1184707
    WinnieThePooh
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    umm, my memory must be failing. I think there was a thread about what to do in your gap year, where people recommended various options for seminary in Israel to you Sparkly, and you rejected them. If you changed your mind, just go back to that thread, so we don’t have to go thru the same thing all over again.

    #1184708
    Meno
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    There was also another thread started by Sparkly about this exact same topic:

    http://www.theyeshivaworld.com/coffeeroom/topic/needs-help-looking-for-sem

    #1184709
    Lilmod Ulelamaid
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    Pninim would be a good choice for you.

    #1184710
    Sparkly
    Member

    lilmod ulelamaid – thats too modern.

    #1184712
    B1g B0y
    Participant

    Bnos Tz’lafchad

    #1184713
    Sparkly
    Member

    I think what i need is a husband and some shidduch advice! what kind of guy is this someone who doesnt talk to girls, doesnt wear jeans but not black suit black hatter, someone who goes to movies, listens to not jewish music, etc….?

    #1184714
    gofish
    Member

    Are you sure you are ready to get married?

    Marriage is <b>not</b> something that is a solution for “I’m at an impasse in my life, so why not get married?”

    #1184715
    Shopping613 🌠
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    Pninim is too modern for you? I can’t imagine than what you are because you aren’t MO and you aren’t yeshivish…

    Maybe Rinat Tzipporah…

    #1184716

    Lookingforsem I like to be Dan likof zchus and maybe u are looking for sem is that why u cam here to begin with? Cause ur username is very specific to that question. So when you get your answer will your name changed to howshouldipackforsem or suitcaseorduffelbag ? Btw i was also accused of being a troll like a few months ago don’t take it personal unless its true. And also if you ask a question and you are not open minded to advice then why bother asking to begin with?

    #1184717
    Sparkly
    Member

    Shopping613 – im yeshivish NOT mo.

    #1184719
    Sparkly
    Member

    im now in a situation where i decided that i want someone learning full time only problem is that i already know 2 guys who i want and they wont be learning full time they will learn part time h’h and i dont plan on NOT marrying someone just because they want to work im too late in life to change my mind.

    #1184720
    gofish
    Member

    Uh, Sparkly, didn’t you say in at least 3 threads that you are MO?

    #1184721
    Meno
    Participant

    “im too late in life to change my mind.”

    Clearly not true. You change your mind every two weeks.

    #1184722
    Sparkly
    Member

    gofish – theres something called frumming out.

    #1184723
    gofish
    Member

    True frumming out or any growth doesn’t take place over the span of two weeks. Growth is a process…

    #1184724
    Sparkly
    Member

    gofish – i agree but dont forget that i technically wasnt mo. i ALWAYS go to shiurim and i have an excellent rav that i follow now and im very careful with tznius and dont talk to guys and dont watch movies or tv or any of that. so thats considered yeshivish.

    #1184725
    gofish
    Member

    Your rav is yeshivish?

    Do you think yeshivish only means not talking to guys, dressing modestly, and not watching movies or TV?

    It is a whole lifestyle, based on an entire philosophy and derech.

    (Hey, chassidish people generally don’t do those things you said you don’t do. So technically you’re chassidish too now, no?)

    #1184726
    Sparkly
    Member

    gofish – yup my rav is yeshivish and i know that theres more to the lifestyle than just that.

    #1184727

    Did I just hear correctly sparkly? There’s 2 guys that u want? What does that even mean?

    #1184728
    Sparkly
    Member

    Happygirlygirl – referring to potential h’h hopefully husbands either one of them.

    #1184729
    Sparkly
    Member

    Happygirlygirl – give me a bracha that the shidduch with one of those guys should work.

    #1184730
    reuventree555
    Participant

    “I think what i need is a husband and some shidduch advice! what kind of guy is this someone who doesnt talk to girls, doesnt wear jeans but not black suit black hatter, someone who goes to movies, listens to not jewish music, etc….?”

    “im very careful with tznius and dont talk to guys and dont watch movies or tv or any of that.”

    Wait so you’re looking for a guy who watches movies, but you don’t watch movies? Doesn’t seem to make sense…

    “I already know 2 guys who i want and they wont be learning full time”

    Haven’t you heard? There’s a shidduch crisis! Force them to learn and then force them to marry you. Then you’ll be set. Your welcome. I solved the problem. Gosh. I love helping people. Especially during Elul.

    #1184731
    Sparkly
    Member

    reuventree555 – i prefer someone who learns full time but am okay if he doesnt. So he can watch movies byhimself he doesnt need me to watch movies with him.

    #1184732
    Meno
    Participant

    reuventree555,

    Are you suggesting that Sparkly contradicted herself from one post to the next?

    I can’t believe that

    #1184733
    Sparkly
    Member

    Meno – right now im upset since something terrible happened yesterday so i dont want to talk about certain stuff right now.

    #1184735
    bjjgirl1
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    Bjj all the way! I learned so much there and the hashkafos are perfect! Plus Rebbetzin David Is the most totaly amazing person you will ever meet (besides MY chosson! :-))

    #1184736
    Sparkly
    Member

    bjjgirl1 – you were just there last year? i would go to bjj if i went to a jewish high school plus my year already went. i have some friends there now.

    #1184737
    WinnieThePooh
    Participant

    I heard that Rebbetzin David is retiring and closing the school next year. Don’t know if it’s true.

    #1184738
    Sparkly
    Member

    WinnieThePooh – which school?

    #1184739
    WinnieThePooh
    Participant

    Sparkkly- Read BJJgirl1’s post again, you will find the answer there.

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