What are key qualities to look for in a shidduch?

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    memo
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    In terms of middos, patience, nice etc. everyone wants certain qualities…so while your actually dating want should you keep an eye out for???

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    Cedarhurst
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    Nothing else comes anywhere close to Middos.

    #722000
    pashute zach
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    all the things that were listed in the first post fall under the category of middos!

    #722001
    real-brisker
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    Yiras shumayim

    #722002
    cshapiro
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    generous…and his connection/love for Hashem and mitzvot…is he doing it out of love or route??? its hard…but if u see a red flag def consult a rabbi….

    #722003
    2qwerty
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    I like this article…

    http://www.aish.com/f/m/48967181.html

    #722004
    willi
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    Middos and yiras shamayim priority, next comes compatibility, stable in mind / settled, and the rest differs for each person (looks money background health etc)

    If you’re asking more specifically about character, I’d say make sure no temper, giving type – baal chesed. And oh, very important: a happy positive person – makes life so much easier…

    #722005
    shev143
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    One simple rule I’ve heard from many wise people which has been proven. Make sure they future in-laws have lots of money, and they also poses the quality of sharing it.

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