I SHOULD MARKET THIS IDEA, AND I WILL MAKE MILLIONS!
TAKE A MINUTE AND READ THIS ARTICLE!
FACEBOOK?....not kosher, besides if you see someone on facebook that you like, you can’t just ask them out over facebook, rather you have to go on a rat race and try to figure out who else knows them, and what they are about, and who can possibly read such a shidduch.
Seeing them on the street? …also doesn’t work, mostly for the same reasons as facebook. You don’t know who they are, so you have to find out who they are. Even if you know who they are, you
have to find out who knows them and is willing to read it.
SHIDDUCH DATING NEEDS A NEW TWIST!
AFTER SEMINARY/YESHIVA/WORKING……you sit back and hope that some family friends know you are dating, but you can’t say anything because then that makes you look like you are desperate. SOOOOoo you are supposed to just sit back and wait around till someone might have a possible idea for you, and then comes the research, and you might find out that the idea is very far off. Meanwhile your blood pressure goes sky high, yet you have to look at your best because otherwise nobody wants to read you to anyone.
NOBODY KNOWS THEMSELVES BETTER THAN THEY DO!
COFFE ROOM + DATING+ SHIDDUCHIM= A NEW SHIDDUCH SUCCESS TWIST!
SOOOOO HERE IS MY IDEA…..I take a holistic view at the YWN Coffee Room, and see that basically anyone can write whatever they want because nobody really knows who they are. Also there are soooo many people looking for their match on facebook, and that’s a big problem for the shidduch scene. Also…You can’t expect someone to sit back and look totally relaxed when they aren’t, and that’s when everyone is marking them on who they are. THEREFOR…….Lets creates a column for people that are on the market and they create a user name, where nobody will have a clue that they are, and they can freely discuss/prospect/social network in a kosher/shidduch approved way!
IT WILL SAY THEIR AGE and GENDER and that’s IT! After that it’s totally dependent upon the people to converse and find out about the person by talking to them, (in explicit detail) and if they decide that it’s not for them, than they can just freely walk away!
THIS CREATES AN OPPORTUNITY FOR PEOPLE ON THE MARKET TO TAKE THE FRONT SEAT, WHILE BEING IN THE BACK SEAT, UNDER RADOR, AND LETS THEM ACT AND TAKE A DOGMATIC APPROACH BY THEMSELVES, W/O ANYONE IN MIDDLE!
If they like what the other person said based on their conversation, than they let YWN know, and they send each of them the full profile!