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  • #592014

    potsandpans
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    anyone know of names and numbers of chassidishe shadchanim in NY and NJ area?

    #1120192

    cookie7
    Member

    Thanks for the great list, unfortunately, most of these people won’t give you the time of day, if you don’t have the right “name, yichus, or bank account”.(with emphasis on bank account)Phone calls are never returned and on the rare occasion that you do get a hold of them, they are very curt and quick to get off the phone. Granted, there are some who do it lishma, but many of them demand exhorbitant fees- $3000-5000.00. Since when did shadchanus become such big business.

    #1120193

    potsandpans
    Member

    Thanks! this list is def long and thorough…is anyone familiar with the list that can point out which of these shadchanim work with the more chassidishe/boro park circles?

    #1120194

    says who
    Member

    Try Mechel Brinner of BP 718-633-4142

    #1120195

    msseeker
    Member

    “Since when did shadchanus become such big business.”

    Supply & demand, mamala.

    #1120196

    cookie7
    Member

    So, are you saying the wonderful Jewish girls are overstocked, that their worth is based only on dollars and cents. Divorces have become rampant in the so called “frum” community because, unfortunately, people are looking for the wrong thing. Whatever happened to working and bringing in a salary. What has happened to one’s pride of doing things on one’s own and not being beholden to a father-in law.

    EDITED

    #1120197

    msseeker
    Member

    cookie, were you tslking to me? I meant the demand for shadchanim and meager supply of this precious commodity.

    #1120198

    fabie
    Member

    Cookie – seems like you post is off base.

    #1120199

    kapusta
    Participant

    Thanks for the great list, unfortunately, most of these people won’t give you the time of day, if you don’t have the right “name, yichus, or bank account”.(with emphasis on bank account)

    Dont give up that easily. If shadchan wont “give you the time of day” then chances are your bashert will be from the same category so that sort of shadchan probably wont be of much help to you. Remember you only need one.

    Hatzlacha!

    *kapusta*

    #1120200

    Lakewood Mom
    Member

    do you realize that some of these shadchanim receive over 100 phone calls per day? What do you expect from them? They are only human!!

    #1120201

    shaindel
    Member

    Daven HaKadosh Baruch Hu is Mizaveg Zivugim… the shadchan is a shliach So Daven, have Bitachon yes, IY”H BeKarov!

    Be referred to the shadchan, email them, call them, text them call in the mornings!!!!!

    some have certain hours— be considerate if your polite they’ll be nice too!

    some pointers:

    call back once they redd a shidduch in a timely manner

    speak respectfully, if the shidduch’s not for you don’t say anything that could hurt the other party involved (he’s ugly etc.)– its just not for you

    Hatzlacha IY”H everyone should find their besherte bkarov!

    #1120202

    Aishes Chayil
    Participant

    There is also a guy named Yeedle Oshry and another one called Orenstein.

    You’ll have to find their numbers as I dont have them at hand..

    #1120203

    cookie7
    Member

    Thanks for your words of chizuk, and yes, I do realize that people are very busy, but there is no need to be rude. If they find it gets to be too much, than leave the work to someone else. However, I still feel that the best boys are redd only to girls who come from certain “types’ of backgrounds and are promised certain things. (and I can vouch for this because I married off boys and every shadchan called with the same names). I don’t want to put the blame solely on the shadchannim , mother’s of sons also want to ‘auction’ their sons to the highest bidder, and make sure that they will be taken care of forever and ever.

    #1120204

    emoticon613
    Member

    i think mrs. silverstein in the israel list doesn’t want to be on lists. that’s what she told me anyway, that she only takes people who were directly referred by someone that she knows. she’s great by the way; it’s worth it if you live here to find someone who knows her, just to have the experience of meeting a nice shadchante. (can you tell i don’t like shadchanim very much, no offense to any particular ones…)

    rabbi bursztyn in the best!!!!!! i just had to say that.

    rabbi lewenstein is also very nice.

    #1120205

    Lakewood Mom
    Member

    hatzlocha to all.

    #1120206

    bpt
    Participant

    I really think its time the CR open its own shidduch venue. And it could be done with ease; if I’m looking for a girl with xyz values, and one of the members has such values (as evident from their posts) I would contact the Moderators and ask them to pass them my real world contact information. Then, if from what they see from my posts, they agree that a tachlis conversation is in order, we move to step 2.

    Vastly different from standard on-line venues, as in the CR subjects of all sorts have been discussed, so you get to see what makes a person tick before they are putting up a smokescreen. And $3000? Please, thats disgusting. We could do our own legwork and pay the Mods a flat fee of (well, not sure what that number should be, but I’m certain we could discuss that on another thread:)

    #1120207

    blinky
    Participant

    Sounds interesting

    #1120208

    chanasara
    Member

    just spoke to mrs gitty rupp from shaindel’s list. she is not a shadchan. she is part of a group of regular women (nor shadchanim) that meets 6 times a year to network. but thanks shaindel for the post

    #1120209

    shaindel
    Member

    this is a list forwarded by tons of pple many times i cant take responsiblity for any of the listed shadchanim although i thought pple would appreciate the list b/c there are well know shadchanim on it as well THE MODERATORS CAN TAKE IT OFF IF THERE’S A PROBLEM

    #1120210

    Ofcourse
    Member

    I just came across this list. It’s a very good list. Being that it’s months old, can anyone add any names and possibly make remarks on the area of expertise (Litvish, college boys, working boys, different ages)?

    #1120211

    Getzel
    Participant

    The best Shadchen is Roth Rabbi Pinchas D. 323-573-1136, 732-367-0241 Lakewood, N.J. he is expensive but gives his whole heart! keep up the grat work

    #1120213

    FrozenThaw
    Member

    Are there any other shadchanim/ organizations in BP, Williamsburg or Monsey that one can go to that focuses on mainstream chassidish shidduchim?

    #1120214

    candg15
    Member

    check out kesher brooklyn

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