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Joseph – what do you disagree with? That it will ruin your Shalom Bayis?
Person1 – I think they do, especially nowadays. I heard that today even in high school, they start teaching about dating and marriage because there are so many problems. They even have classes about recognizing signs of abuse.
I wonder if they teach boys as much about marriage? Maybe if they did, there would be less divorces.
I think girls are taught that everything is expected of them and way too much pressure is put on them!
For women, he just gave them a bracha if they don’t read it. That’s okay – I’ve gotten brachos from more chashuve people in my life.
Are we ranking levels of chashivus now?
Kapusta – I don’t know, I thought it was obvious that Rav Sheinberg Zatsal was more chashuv, but if you think that was an inappropriate statement, I take it back. I guess either way, a bracha from anyone should not be taken lightly.
Yes, I wasn’t even sure who you were referring to but IMO we don’t know which “simple” people are tzaddikim, and even so, no bracha should be discounted.
I wouldn’t have said it unless I was referring to someone who is known as a Gadol. I was also thinking of a couple of other Gedolim/Roshei Yeshivos I’ve received brachos from who are known to be extremely chashuve, but I will stop there.
With free coloring pages you can develop a way for your kids to remain entertained. You will not be hearing that they are burnt out. When it is too warm to play outdoors or bitter chilly they have to have interior activities. Coloring can aid them to establish abilities and also it also helps them to remain silent.
Surely that post was intended for a different thread.
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As you read through this thread, it seems that many posters are in denial and would like to revert back to a bygone era in the Alte Heim where women stayed at home because it was a social norm for the society they lived-in, goyishe and yiddeshe, and there were very few opportunities for women to pursue their own education and careers. B”YH, that world is GONE FOREVER, and today more than 50 percent of the students pursuing graduate degrees in professions such as medicine, law, social work, education etc. are women. Also, there are an incredible number of frum Jewish women who have found ways to maintain their yiddeshkeit and hashkafah while also pursuing their education. Yes, for those kollel yungerleit who want a “stay-at-home” baas yisroel with a very limited secular education wnd no real job skills, I’m sure the inventory is well-stocked (if one believes the constant drumbeat of “shidduch crisis” stories here) but increasingly, both young men and women are finding their beschert among those who have realized the opportunities the Ebeshter has provided and pursuing them through advanced education. These men and women are more likely to treat one another as “equals” and don’t take seriously the notion of subordination of women to their husbands.
Shulchan Aruch (Y.D. 240:17): Both men and women are equal in being required to honor and fear their parents. However, the woman does not have the ability to fulfill this Mitzvah because she is subservient to her husband. Therefore, she is exempt from the Mitzvah of honoring her father and mother while she is married. If she gets divorced or widowed she is obligated.
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