Can folks who celebrate Valentine's Day be counted for a minyan?

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  • #617231
    Joseph
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    Or should we wait for an 11th mispallel?

    #1139339
    Lefty SoferStam
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    Well can a kofer? I guess it’s the same question.

    #1139340
    Lefty SoferStam
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    And btw joseph i’m impressed you keep track of that shmutz.

    #1139341
    apushatayid
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    In my shul the women are never counted for the minyan.

    #1139342
    Lefty SoferStam
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    We count them but they’re 2 for 1.

    #1139343
    Avi K
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    Can people who do any shetut (such as posting nonsensical threads) be counted in a minyan? Saints are not avoda zara and people today certainly do not intend for it.

    #1139344
    Joseph
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    Saint Valentine isn’t Avoda Zora?

    #1139345
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
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    Waiting for Sam to opine whether it’s chukas akum.

    #1139346
    flatbusher
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    This is a ridiculous thread. There is no avoda zarah involved in this. Despite the name, it’s just a day to celebrate one’s love for another. I don’t celebrate it and don’t know any frum people that do, but even if they did, there is no religious observance connected to it

    #1139347
    Lefty SoferStam
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    oh flatbusher your against young couples eating together but this is ok!?

    #1139348
    simcha613
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    It’s just as bad as living in Saint Louis.

    #1139349
    Lefty SoferStam
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    Were did you get that from

    #1139350
    Joseph
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    You mean as bad as celebrating Saint Hallow’s Day.

    #1139351
    RV
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    No! It’s as bad as living in Saint Augusta, if that sounds any different.

    #1139352
    Joseph
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    Or having the portly fellow with the white beard come in his red rekel on Saint Nicholas Day to distribute tzedaka to all the kid’s red stockings.

    #1139353
    flatbusher
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    Lefty: How do you compare it? If someone wants to buy flowers or chocolate for his wife as an expression of love, how is that like couples getting very familiar with each other?

    #1139354
    WolfishMusings
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    Oh, for heaven’s sake.

    Look, I’m a huge romantic. People on these boards have bashed me for that, but that’s who I am. And, even so, I don’t celebrate Valentine’s Day, largely because of it’s Christian origin.

    On the other hand, the day is, for all practical purposes, no longer really a Christian holiday in any meaningful sense of the word. As a result, I would say that those who do are certainly not engaging in avoda zara in any manner, shape or form.

    Do I think it’s better if they don’t celebrate the day? Yes, I do. But should that cause them to be excluded from a minyan? Please. Let’s put it this way — there are plenty of other people I would exclude before I exclude someone who celebrates Valentine’s Day.

    The Wolf

    #1139355
    Lefty SoferStam
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    Flatbubusher i’m glad you have such a clean mind, but just letting you know not all the people doing that are married

    #1139356

    So what, Lefty? (This is about frum Jews celebrating the day.)

    #1139357

    (There’s no “Saint Hallow.” The closest names are All Hallows’ Eve and

    All Saints’ Eve, or, for the day, All Saints’ Day and All Hallows.)

    #1139358
    Sam2
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    Joseph: It’s B’feirush in Tosfos (Avodah Zarah 2a and Sanhedrin 63b) that saints aren’t Avodah Zarah.

    DY: It’s a Davar Pashut that it’s Chukas Akum. Why do you need me to tell anyone that.

    #1139359
    Joseph
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    Do you hold its okay to have Santa Claus give the kids Chanukah gifts?

    #1139360
    Sam2
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    Joseph: Unclear. I need to do more research on it. It’s possible that Santa Claus isn’t actually Chukas Akum because he’s a Coca-Cola invention, though I think something religious preceded that. I have to look into it.

    #1139361
    flatbusher
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    Lefty: You know any single frum people that observe Valentine’s Day in the traditional fashion? I don’t

    #1139362
    Lefty SoferStam
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    Of course not! I only knew it was valentines day because Joseph was keeping track.

    #1139363
    TheGoq
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    Are people who observe Arbor day really trees?

    #1139364
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
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    Are people who observe Easter bunnies?

    Are people who observe Lent bankers?

    Are people who observe Xmas ex’s?

    #1139365
    apushatayid
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    I would call them observant.

    #1139366
    👑RebYidd23
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    People who celebrate President’s day are presidents.

    #1139367
    Avi K
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    What about people who live in Corpus Christi,TX? What about people who have offices on Trinity Pl in Manhattan?

    #1139368
    Joseph
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    That’s passive. Celebrating is active.

    #1139369
    Avi K
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    Joseph, what if someone moved to the former and rented office space on the latter?

    #1139370
    dovrosenbaum
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    I purchase chocolates and candies that are kosher half-off after the 14th. Is this assur?

    #1139371
    147
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    In view of the tragic decision from the supreme court this past year, it is now a Hora’as Sho’oh, that better to be involved in valentine celebration and stay away from what supreme court tragically declared ok.

    #1139372

    It’s possible that Santa Claus isn’t actually Chukas Akum because he’s a Coca-Cola invention, though I think something religious preceded that.

    Wikipedia:

    The modern Santa Claus is derived from the British figure of Father Christmas, the Dutch figure of Sinterklaas, and Saint Nicholas, the historical Greek bishop and gift-giver of Myra. During the Christianization of Germanic Europe, this figure may also have absorbed elements of the god Odin, who was associated with the Germanic pagan midwinter event of Yule and led the Wild Hunt, a ghostly procession through the sky.

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